The Elevator Pause

James R. Rector
Publisher, Profiles in Leadership Journal

An elevator ride lasts less than a minute. Yet in that brief time, a leader can set a tone that lasts the entire day.

The best leaders do not fill the space with chatter. They pause, notice who is present, and ask a question that matters. A word of recognition, a genuine inquiry, or a simple thank you can create connection in the most ordinary of moments.

The pause works beyond elevators. In meetings, in conversations, in decision making, slowing down for just a breath allows better questions and sharper choices to surface.

At Home

Families benefit from the same pause. A parent who pauses before reacting to a child’s mistake often speaks with more wisdom. A pause before responding to conflict at the dinner table often prevents regret. Small pauses protect relationships.

Your question: Where could a short pause today open the door to a better connection or decision?

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